Close relations assume full confidence and frankness. But whether it means, what we in all situations should be fair and truthful? Whether it is necessary to speak the truth always?
Truthfulness concerns merits though it is sometimes absolutely not clear, on what basis? After all, if it was possible to measure total harm from lie and from the truth, still it is not known, what of two categories would appear the leader. And the desire to speak the truth, that is is absolute all as is, is noble only at first sight. Often in its basis the most selfish and severe motives lay.
Especially it concerns personal and intimate relations which have for us huge value and always are taken to heart. Setting questions on similar themes, we want only one – acknowledgement of own value in the opinion of other person, its love to us. When in relations all is good, questions have the formal character turning to ritual. As you are strong me love? - it is most on light! Happy pair will find out hardly, that is enclosed in concept "love" also who those all". When the confidence of relations not so is high, questions become more biassed.
Asking not always realises, for what exactly he waits from the answer – acknowledgement or refutations of the doubts. But answering should suspect a step forward and estimate degree of influence of the truth. It is not excluded, this truth is that, that will cause only positive emotions. And here if our revelations in something are unpleasant for the partner, possibly, it is necessary to introduce corrective amendments. Actually it is not so difficult – language possibilities are so great, that one and too inherently the assumption told by different words and with different intonation, gets absolutely other sense …
